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April 29th, 2007 (06:28 pm)

Hello LJ friends...I've not been around for a few days due to a lot of bad things happening in my life.  Sort of all came down on me at once.  So I wasn't able to keep up with the 100 Orgasm Challenge, even though I tried!  I did manage to give myself some quickie-type orgasms on most days, but really I was toooo stressed out and sad on some of those days to keep up with the challenge.  I'd like to start the challenge again, but there's a small hitch.  My boyfriend is coming to live with me for the summer, and we haven't seen each other in 5 months!  He'll be here in two weeks.  He's decided to stop masturbating until we see each other, and he kind of wants me to do the same (although, I can do as I please in the end, he wouldn't be mad or anything).  Should I hold off?  I don't know if I can not masturbate for two weeks.  Once he's here I know we'll be masturbating together a lot, since we like that as a regular part of our sex play, and I can start the challenge again then maybe.  What should I do?

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Posted by: Windpower (windpower)
Posted at: April 30th, 2007 04:12 am (UTC)

I say have a couple good ones the next couple days then hold off until he arrives. That is my suggestion!

Posted by: Theatre of the Absurd (absurdtheatre)
Posted at: April 30th, 2007 08:04 am (UTC)

I don't think I could hold off for two weeks... maybe, try doing it as little as possible, but at least hold off for a few days before he arrives? If nothing else, I've found that it's a lot more exciting and I have better orgasms if I've held off for a few days.

Posted by: appleof_sodom (appleof_sodom)
Posted at: April 30th, 2007 04:58 pm (UTC)

you can not masturbate for two weeks not good

Posted by: GreyStroke (greystroke)
Posted at: May 2nd, 2007 04:44 am (UTC)

Depends ... do orgasms make you horny or satisfied ...

If they make you horny for more ... then go at it with gusto. If they kind of satiate you ... then hold off.

Posted by: Glenn (righteous_chops)
Posted at: May 2nd, 2007 06:21 pm (UTC)

I'm not sure if I would sacrifice something if it makes me happy/calm/fulfilled and I wouldn't be then without. But that is me. I do understand the idea of both of you waiting. I think it's very sweet and romantic. However, seems like you have a lot on your plate right now and as long as you don't feel some sort of sacrifice in this area is going to put more pressure on you, I say go for it.

Posted by: beigekhakis (beigekhakis)
Posted at: May 2nd, 2007 06:32 pm (UTC)

no, that's ridiculous Wank away

Posted by: ondabubble (ondabubble)
Posted at: May 5th, 2007 12:37 pm (UTC)
Masturbation and love

Love it when a woman admits she masturbates! It makes me so horny! (My cock is out of my trousers as I read your answers to the questionaire)- hope you don't mind.

Self love is our first love - I remember playing with my little penis when I was in first grade- on the playground as two girl classmates watched! (It was under a juniper tree, as I remember.

But I never saw a woman play with her pussy until much later. It is such a private and beautiful act and mutual masturbation is an incredible turn-on.

I'm looking forward to hearing from others who agree.

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